An excerpt from my short story: “The Ghost of Past Orgasms” (4-22-16)

“I think where a lot of men get it wrong in the bedroom is the thought that there are only a few “fun spots” on the woman and that’s where they should maintain their energy. While there are definitely a few places where a concentration of energy should be applied, to focus ONLY on those places means missing out on a much greater experience, especially for her. I would suggest that the woman’s entire body can be and should be treated with sexual respect. Hands don’t have to stay on the “10 and 2” positions. This isn’t a machine! This is a living, breathing, beautiful individual who needs more than the bare minimum, even if that’s how you dressed for the event. I would recommend really getting a feel for the occasion by using those hands liberally and sensually. Explore! There’s no rush. It’s my experience that a hands-on approach is favored over empty oral theory. That’s not to say things should be quiet. Telling her what you are enjoying as you are enjoying it is a surefire way to generate extra heat. There’s so much more to this than simply dipping a carrot. This should be the equivalent of a well balanced meal with a well balanced feel. In the end we guys tend to only remember reaching the top of the mountain but the fact of the matter is; THAT takes a few seconds. Teasing and exploring make the entire trip more memorable for all parties involved and let’s be honest, the journey is often better than the destination, especially if we already know how the story ends. When those muscles tense, that pulse quickens and the sweat beads, a chorus of exhilaration sings us to the promised land. We can choose to make the song as long and as memorable as an epic anthem or as short and forgettable as a commercial. I don’t know about you, but I’d rather bathe in the purple rain.”